Together, we could: how to answer it (with examples)
By the bestsideofyou teamLast updated
“Together, we could” works best as a small, real plan, not a life goal. Name something two people could actually do in the next few weeks, with one detail that shows it's yours. It's the closest thing Hinge has to suggesting a first date.
What this prompt reveals about you
Your idea of a good time with someone, scaled to real life. A specific plan shows imagination and makes saying yes easy. It also tells people what kind of date you'd plan, which is half of what they want to know.
8 example answers
Illustrative examples written by us, not real profiles.
Finally finish the 1,000-piece puzzle of Lisbon that has lived on my dining table since March.
Find the best dumplings in Queens. I have a shortlist of nine and a spreadsheet. I need a second opinion.
Enter the pub quiz on Thursdays and stop coming fourth. I'm great on geography. Please be good at music.
Assemble a bookshelf without speaking to each other. If we survive, we can talk about a second date.
Walk the whole canal path from end to end. It's 14 miles. There's a bakery at mile 9. I've done the research.
Learn to salsa badly in public. There's a free class in the park on Wednesdays. I've watched it four times.
Rate every hot chocolate in town on a scale I've already invented. It has five categories. Marshmallows are one.
Cook my grandmother's lasagna. It takes all Sunday and she will want a photo of the result.
Common mistakes
Travel the world!
Take the night train to Vienna and argue about which café has the best apple strudel. I've got a front-runner.
A world tour isn't a plan, it's a wish. Shrink it to one trip with one detail.
Do anything.
Try every food truck at the Saturday market, then rank them on the walk home. I have firm opinions about the tacos.
“Anything” gives them nothing to say yes to.
Build a life together.
Grow tomatoes on my balcony. Last year I got three. I believe we can reach five.
Big commitments on a first look feel heavy. A small shared project is more inviting.
Pair it with
Pair it with a photo from the kind of place you're suggesting. It makes the plan feel real.
- Dating me is like
- I know the best spot in town for
- The way to win me over is
- A photo: doing the thing you mentioned. Turns a prompt claim into proof: the climbing wall, the pottery wheel, the pizza oven.
- A photo: a place that matters to you. Your local café, your allotment, your Sunday route. Gives someone a first-date idea.
More on building the whole profile: How to improve your Hinge profile.
Questions people ask
Is this prompt too forward?
Not if the plan is small. Suggesting a market or a quiz is friendly, not intense.
Should the plan be romantic?
It doesn't need to be. Fun and specific usually works better than romantic and vague.
Can I use a joke plan?
Yes, as long as it still says something about you. A joke that could be anyone's is the only thing to avoid.